Friends will let you down. Hard cold fact. As emphatic as we can strive to be, selfishness will always bulge it’s way in somehow.
At one climactical moment in his suffering, Job cried, “My close friends have forgotten me.” (Job 19:14 NKJV)
Picture how lonely Jesus felt at the garden before he died.* He was so stressed about His impending suffering that while He prayed, He sweated great drops of blood.
At this critical hour of weakness, Jesus asks his closest friends, His disciples, to pray. The Bible details Jesus’ findings when He returned to check on His friends:
And He came and found them asleep again, for their eyes were heavy. (Matthew 26:43 NKJV)
The Bible records that three times the disciples fell asleep after Jesus would come wake them up.
It’s vital to have friends. God said back in the garden, “ It is not good that man should be alone…” (Genesis 2:18 NKJV)
We need friends. Girlfriends aren’t bad either! But don’t fool yourself to think they are faultless. They are human. They will at one time turn you down. It’s just natural.
But what a friend we have in Jesus! We can always bank on Jesus because His promises are backed by an eternal guarantee.
“I will never leave you” (Hebrews 13:5)
“I’m with you always” (Matthew 28:20)
“Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” (John 15:13 NKJV)
Romans 5:7 states that scarcely would a good person would died for someone. But Jesus died for us. Sounds like a friend to hold on to.
Love your friends. “Friendship is the golden ribbon that ties the world together”**, but ribbons do tear.
Unless He is God of course!
*Luke 22:39-46.
**Poem by Kristina Kentigian