There is such a great wealth in being content with desiring God. It is futile to live to culminate earthly treasures that will ultimately sift through our fingers when we leave earth at death.
And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. (I Timothy 6:8 NKJV)
So what about romance? There is nothing under this profile of contentment in 1 Timothy 6 that talks about being content with being single!
After all, wasn’t God who said, “It is not good that man should be alone.” (Genesis 2:18 NKJV)?
God did said that. In fact, Proverbs 18:22 says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.”
So what’s the problem, John? I find a wife: it makes God happy, and He even blesses me with His favor.
I interrupt the eharmony chat room only on this ground: Is she/he the upmost pursuit to win your greatest interest? In other words, is she the center of your drive through life?
If so, you might need to evaluate.
Check this out. You’ve decided to follow the Son. I mean that’s why you’re reading this blog right?…right?
Then what does this verse convey to you?
If then you were raised with Christ [dead to sin and now alive in Christ as this new creation] seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. (Colossians 3:1 NKJV)
Seek Heaven’s treasures: golden streets, big mansions, loved ones and crowns. No. Seek those things which are above: where Christ is. The things we glean from above is the outcome as we set on eyes on Jesus. The focus is Christ. He is our life.
Read what follows verse three:
For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. (Colossians 3:3 NKJV)
This new life we have been rebirthed in is inside Christ. So we set [our] mind on things above, not on things on the earth (Colossians 3:2 NKJV) because Christ is literally our life now.
I’m all for relationships! I just want you to see that Christ is crazy about you.
You know enough that in any romantic relationship, you need to give your everything for that person. Christ gave Himself for you that He might redeem you from sin. And it goes on. Read Ephesians 1 and see some great blessings of God you have in Christ!
He is jealous over you (Ex 34:14). In my opinion, I wouldn’t venture in a relationship, if you’re cheating on your first love!
Being content in God is great wealth in itself. Romance should never steal your heart from loving the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. (Deuteronomy 6:5 NKJV)
Enjoy relationships but enjoy God more.